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Set up custody and parenting-time mediation

Meet with a court-approved mediator by video to work out a custody and parenting-time plan after both parents take Focus on Children.

Steps

4 steps
  1. Take Focus on Children firstEach parent registers for the parenting class before mediation can be scheduled.
  2. Get your appointment scheduledAfter both parents attend the class, Family Mediation schedules a 90-minute appointment.
  3. Join the video appointmentAll appointments are by video. Use the link in your appointment email or letter.
  4. Plan for the full 90 minutesMediation may end early if you reach a full agreement. There can be up to three appointments.

Bring

  • Notes on schedules and topics
  • Any helpful paperwork
Extra appointments beyond the standard three cost $150 per 90 minutes.

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